Christmas
Tales...
A
True Christmas Story
December 10, 2011
Here
is a fairly well known tale. I
think it is worth re-telling. It conveys a valuable message; No matter
how
tough things are, don’t give up. You just don’t know what lies around
the corner.....!
Robert
May was a short man, barely
five feet in height. He was born in the early part of the last century,
that is
to say, the nineteen hundreds.
Bullied
at school, he was ridiculed
and humiliated by other children because he was smaller than other boys
of the
same age. Even as he grew up, he was often mistaken for someone’s
little
brother.
When
he left college he became
employed as a copywriter with Montgomery Ward, the big Chicago mail
order
house. He married and in due course, his wife presented him with a
daughter.
Then when his little daughter was two years old, tragedy struck; his
wife was
diagnosed with a debilitating disease. She became bedridden and
remained so
until she died. Nearly everything he earned went on medication and
doctor’s
bills. Money was short and life was hard.
One
evening in early December of 1938
and two years into his wife’s illness, his four-year-old daughter
climbed onto
his knee and asked, “Daddy, why isn’t Mummy like everybody else’s
mummy?” It
was a simple question, asked with childlike curiosity. But it struck a
personal
chord with Robert May.
His
mind flashed back to his own
childhood. He had often posed a similar question, “Why can’t I be tall,
like
the other kids?” The stigma attached to those who are different is hard
to
bear. Groping for something to say to give comfort to his daughter, he
began to
tell her a story. It was about someone else who was different,
ridiculed,
humiliated and excluded because of the difference.
Bob
told the story in a humorous way,
making it up as he went along; in the way that many fathers often do.
His
daughter laughed, giggled and clapped her hands as the misfit finally
triumphed
at the end. She then made him start all over again from the beginning
and every
night after that he had to repeat the story before she would go to
sleep.
Because
he had no money for fancy
presents, Robert decided that he would put the story into book form. He
had
some artistic talent and he created illustrations. This was to be his
daughter’s Christmas present. The book of the story that she loved so
much. He
converted the story into a poem.
On
the night before Christmas Eve, he
was persuaded to attend his office Christmas Party. He took the poem
along and
showed it to a colleague. The colleague was impressed and insisted that
Robert
read his poem aloud to everyone else at the party. Somewhat embarrassed
by the
attention, he took the small hand written volume from his pocket and
began to
read. At first the noisy group listened in laughter and amusement. But
then
became silent and after he finished, they broke into spontaneous
applause.
Later,
and feeling quite pleased with
himself, he went home, wrapped the book in Christmas wrapping and
placed it
under the modest Christmas tree. To say that his daughter was pleased
with her
present would be an understatement. She loved it!
When
Robert returned to work after the
Holiday, he was summoned to the office of his head of department. He
wanted to
talk to Bob about his poem. It seemed that word had got out about his
reading
at the Christmas party. The Head of Marketing was looking for a
promotional
tool and wondered if Robert would be interested in having his poem
published.
The
following year, 1939, printed
copies of the book were given to every child who visited the department
stores
of Montgomery Ward and it eventually became an international best
seller,
making Robert a rich man. His wife had unfortunately died during this
time, but
he was able to move from the small apartment and buy a big house. He
was at
last able to provide handsomely for his growing daughter.
The
story is not quite over. In 1947,
songwriter Johnny Marks used the theme of Robert’s poem for a song. He
showed
the song to a famous film star of the day, Gene Autry, ‘The Singing
Cowboy’. Autry
recorded the song and it became a world-wide number one hit. You may
just
remember it. The first line goes....”Rudolph The Red-Nosed Reindeer had
a very
shiny nose.....!”
Read
this and other stories at
Christmas Tales
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