The
Brethren Community
Charles
Cupp: A lifetime of service
By Marianne Clark and Nancy Rush
Senior Scribes
The
following story is about
a man who chose to build his life around the word of God. It is a story
of
discipleship and a lifetime of devotion to his Christian beliefs. The
factual
information is the result of an interview, conducted by Marianne Clark,
member
of the Senior Scribes, and written by Nancy Rush, also a member of that
organization. The purpose of the interview, as part of a service of the
Senior
Scribes, is to provide family members a glimpse into the life and
legacy each
person leaves behind.
Charles
Sherman Cupp was born on March 14, 1934 in Circleville,
Ohio to Arthur and Virginia (Arledge) Cupp. The second of nine
children, he and
his siblings grew up in Pickaway County and were members of the
Circleville
Church of the Brethren. It was in this church that Charles grew to know
and
understand the meaning of the Christian faith. It was in this same
church that
Charles was baptized as a youth. His parents were devout members of the
congregation and, throughout his years, Charles has followed in that
same
dedication and commitment to the Lord.
As
a child, Charles remembers when he and a brother both developed
whooping cough and pneumonia at the same time; Charles was only about a
year
old and his brother was two and a half. Sadly, his brother passed away
and, in
Charles words, he became the representative of the family because he
was the
oldest of those who came after him. However, Charles related, that
today his
younger brother has taken over that responsibility and lets other
relatives know
about upcoming family-related gatherings.
Reflecting
upon those early days, Charles said that his mother
always loved summer picnics and, at the end of July, it wasn’t unusual
for the
entire family to celebrate the season with an annual picnic.
Oftentimes, many
of the Cupp relatives would invite their close friends to the
celebration as
well. Even though these friends were not directly related, they were
warmly
welcomed to the festivities.
Church
camp also provided a wonderful experience for Charles as a
young boy. It was a time for spiritual growth, as well as an
opportunity for
fellowship among and with other children his age.
Charles’
own father was a minister and, when asked what it was like
to be a preacher’s son, he replied that it wasn’t much different than
other
families growing up; there was no pressure to conform to a regimented
way of
life. He had just a “normal” childhood and felt no stress or anxiety to
behave
in any certain way.
The
influence of religion in the home most likely had a bit to do
with Charles’ decision to immerse himself more fully into the church;
at age
nine he made a commitment to the Lord and was formally baptized into
Christianity. As Charles put it, this decision has helped him over the
years to
develop a deeper understanding of what it means to be of that faith and
to
become a disciple of Christ. He related that he still has a strong
interest to
further develop this understanding and that he does lots of reading in
order to
receive and understand others’ perspectives and how he fits into that
as well.
Charles
was a very good scholar and reports that his grades in
deportment “were high.” He said that he didn’t want to get into any
kind of
trouble so he behaved himself pretty well. Additionally, he relied on
the
experiences of others as a measure of good behavior, understanding that
actions
often speak louder than words.
When
Charles was just a youngster, he acquired his first paying
job. “I was in the fourth grade of school and World War II was going
on. A
local farmer needed help harvesting his potato crop; it was then that I
got my
Social Security card. I was nine at the time.”
Charles
continued his story of helping out in the family as best he
could with the following: “I came from a large family and we tried to
be as
industrious as we could. If you could get a part-time job you did. I
worked a
paper route and then after high school I worked in a couple of local
industries. After high school, in the fall of 1954, I entered
Manchester
College in Indiana but I only went one year. But later I returned to
school and
attended McPherson College.”
Looking
back at his accomplishments in high school, Charles stated
that he invested his time during the eighth grade and his freshman year
working
in a local dairy store. The store manager gave him the job all during
his high
school years and allowed for him to basically “run the place” during
the
evenings and Saturday mornings. As an additional part of his duties, he
was
also responsible for picking up the raw milk in the mornings before he
had to
attend school.
When
asked about sports activities, Charles reported that he
“dabbled” a little bit in football as a freshman.
Following
his graduation from high school in 1952, Charles went in
for his pre-induction physical for entering a branch of the military
but was
turned down because of a congenital condition that was prevalent in his
family
history. Charles also reported that he had, at that time, “flat feet”
and was
therefore, rejected from becoming a participant in the military service.
Charles
met his wife, Judy Hurst, when her family came to live in
Circleville. Her father, John, had recently been appointed as the
pastor for
the local Church of the Brethren and since Charles was a member there,
it was
only natural that the two of them would meet. The relationship
developed into a
beautiful romance and they were married on Sunday, August 4, 1957. By
the end
of that same month, Charles was licensed to the ministry by the
Southern Ohio
District at the Church of the Brethren.
September
of 1957 found Charles continuing his studies at the
Bethany Bible Training School. Located on the campus of Bethany
Seminary in
Chicago, Illinois, Charles graduated in May of 1959. He then applied to
the McPherson
College in Kansas and was accepted into the college as a junior, based
upon his
past academic work.
During
his college years, Charles served as part-time pastor to two
different churches in the Western Plains District; among these were the
Larned
(Kansas) Church of the Brethren from 1959-1961 and the Eden Valley
Church of
the Brethren , St. John, Kansas from 1961-1962.
In
1962, Charles and Judy completed their college studies at
McPherson College in McPherson, Kansas and both received Bachelor of
Arts
degrees. And it was in the fall of 1962 that Charles was admitted to
the
Bethany Theological Seminary in Chicago/Oak Brook, Illinois. The summer
of 1964
found Charles completing his practicum as the summer pastor at the
Lakeview
Church of the Brethren in Brethren, Michigan. He would go on to earn
his Master
of Divinity degree (M.Div.) with the class of 1965.
Charles
continued his academic pursuit by completing post-graduate
credits at Northern Illinois University, DeKalb. He also served as an
adjunct
faculty member at The Ohio State University in Columbus, Ohio. And in
May of
1965 he received his ordination for the ministry at the Circleville
Church of
the Brethren.
Charles
was called to accept the pastorate position at the Olivet
Church of the Brethren near Thornville, Ohio and began his ministry
there on
July 1, 1965. Located
east of Columbus,
Charles would remain in that community until June of 1974. Charles
referred to
that period of his life with the following, “It was also during this
time that
I began my relationship with the White Cottage Church of the Brethren
as
moderator.” He has continued this affiliation with the church. An
interesting
fact to note is that his father briefly served a pastorate role at
White
Cottage.
In
1974, the congregation decided they didn’t have the financial
means to continue with a full-time pastorate position. This presented a
challenge for Charles because the church was now offering a part-time
position
in that same capacity. This also left Charles with a big decision to
make; he
and his wife now had two sons and his wife was engaged in teaching.
They just
couldn’t afford for him to work part-time.
With
the firm belief that the Lord will provide, it wasn’t long
before Charles was offered a position with the Ohio Department of
Mental
Health. He accepted and began his institutional ministry on September
of 1974;
Charles would continue his career with the Department of Mental Health
until
his retirement in August of 1997.
When
asked if this department was a local organization, Charles
replied that it was local in the beginning (local as far as where he
lived at
the time), because the Department had facilities in the county he lived
in.
However, after two years there the state decided they would close that
facility
and transfer to the Columbus area.
And
so it was that the last five years of his services, Charles
would work at the Central Ohio Psychiatric Hospital in Columbus, Ohio.
At the
time of his retirement, Charles had dedicated twenty-four years of his
life to
the mental health field.
Charles
summed up his philosophy on life with the following: “I
have lived my life in such a way that I reduce anxiety quite simply – I
don’t
avoid issues but see them so they aren’t a dominant factor in my life.
Doing so
has helped me to understand and accept others.”
Looking
back on the formative years of his own family, Charles
stated that he and his wife Judy have been married fifty-five years and
have two
sons, Joel and Stephen. Stephen lives in the Fortville area in Licking
County
in the small town of Homer and works for the Department of Mental
Health. Joel,
who is self-employed, has his own roofing and siding business. Charles
and Judy
have four grandchildren, two step-grandchildren and five
great-grandchildren.
Charles
related an interesting story of a conversation he had with
one of his grandsons. It seemed the grandson called one day and said
that he
had a problem. Charles said, “Buddy, you have to know the problem. The
grandson
replied, “But I have choices! I can either slap him or hit him.”
Charles then
stated they talked and talked until he finally convinced the grandson
that
hitting him wouldn’t achieve much because “he’ll just hit you back!”
And
then one day when Judy was making party mix and Charles was
setting the table in anticipation of their daily meal, their own
four-year-old
son started looking at cookie recipes in the family cookbook. He
automatically
turned to the page with the recipe for peanut-butter cookies. It was at
that
same moment that Judy opened a can of peanuts to add to the party mix.
The son
said, “That’s my favorite cookie and I can smell it now!”
Before
his retirement, Charles served as a commission and chair
member, board member and moderator for the Southern Ohio District of
the Church
of the Brethren. Since his retirement, he has served as the interim
part-time
pastor of the Circleville Church of the Brethren from September 1998
through
June of 2004. He has also represented the Southern Ohio District as an
elected
delegate to the Annual Conference Standing Committee from 2002-2007 and
the
Small Membership Church Leadership Team and Brotherhood Board from
2002-2006.
Charles
has also explored other avenues of service to the
community. For example, he has been a volunteer with the American Lung
Association of Ohio for 23 years, and served as the president of the
board.
During this time he met some very interesting and famed people, such as
Bob
Evans.
Charles
continued with the following story, “When I went to Olivet
Church of the Brethren as a young pastor, I took the church news to a
local
newspaper - such as the Darke County Early Bird – and the editor of the
paper
asked if I would take the honorary chair position for the Christmas
Seals that
year. That was in 1966. I agreed and then after that they invited me to
be a
member of their association. Later I would become president of that
same
association.”
Charles
also served on the Perry County Board of Mental Health for
three terms for a total of ten years, and was a member of the
Thornville Lions
Club for 47 years. He said that he had served in all offices with the
Lions
Club with the exception of Treasurer.
Charles
expressed his affection for public service because “it has always
provided an
avenue and opportunity to invest in the community.”
When
speaking of his years in mental health, Charles reiterated
that in 1974 there were 18 mental health hospitals in the State of
Ohio, now
there are four. “Rehabilitation programs didn’t start right away – up
to that
time it was mostly custodial care. When I started at the Columbus
hospital they
had a patient census of 2200. When I left the patient census number was
225;
attrition gaps and moving people to other facilities created this.”
“Another
thing they did was to establish houses or apartments where
these people could live. The mental health associates checked on them
in their
apartments. This took the patients out of the institutions. Some needed
out but
others could have benefitted from staying in the hospital.”
Charles
said he always looked forward to going to work because it
presented a new experience for him and, because of that, he fully
invested
himself into whatever he was asked to do. “I always enjoyed what I was
doing at
the time,” he said.
His
work was basically in administration for the Office of Mental
Health. As such, one of his positions was the Director of Mental Health
for the
Deaf within the State of Ohio and located in Columbus. Charles would
hold this
position approximately 13 years.
During
that time,” the department and the legislature came up with
a revised Ohio code on mental health and the new law referred most of
the
people back to their own communities where they had mental health
facilities to
address their mental health problems. That’s when they closed out the
deaf
portion of the mental health program. At one time we had about 25
clients
centered in the program. It was not only mental health but
rehabilitation was a
part of it too and included an educational element. It gave
opportunities for
rehabilitation outside the institution and even employment to get an
opportunity to get their GED diploma at the same time. The program was
imaged
after the National Institute of Health in Washington, D.C.”
Charles
continued, “When Dayton’s mental health facility closed,
some of those people were moved back into the community – others who
needed the
care and supervision were transferred to Cincinnati or Columbus.”
When
asked how he came to live in Darke County, Charles said, “I came
here after retirement to become a part of the Brethren Retirement
Community.
However, I have been affiliated with the Church of the Brethren
forever.”
Charles
and his family had been to Darke County for visits on a
number of occasions. His in-laws, John and Marjorie Hurst, still live
here.
John was the pastor in northwest Darke County; at one time in
Lightsville and
Beech Grove over by the Hollansburg area. “I am acquainted with Darke
County in
that regard,” Charles said.
“We
moved here on February 22, 2011,” Charles continued. “As far as
the community here, we enjoy living here and meeting people. Darke
County
offers opportunities that I didn’t have where I was,” Charles stated.
Always
open to new and energizing experiences, Charles and Judy
have acclimated to the country life found in Darke County. Living within the Brethren
Retirement
Community, a Christian-based facility, has afforded them the
opportunity for
cultural enrichment, as well as the chance to meet new people, make new
friends
and to discover the agricultural and frontier heritage that the city of
Greenville has to offer. Living close to their in-laws has also given
them the
opportunity for involving themselves more deeply within family-related
activities as well as the chance to expand upon their public service
endeavors.
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