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Number of
long-lasting marriages in U.S. has risen, Census Bureau reports
By Carol Morello
Published May 18
Americans may be postponing marriage, and fewer are wedding at all. But
what about the people who do get married? They’re staying together
longer than they have in years.
Three in four couples who married after 1990 celebrated a 10-year
anniversary, according to census statistics reported Wednesday. That
was a rise of three percentage points compared with couples who married
in the early 1980s, when the nation’s divorce rate was at its highest.
One reason for the increase, said demographers and sociologists who
study families, is that people are marrying later in life, after they
have completed their education. Not only are they more mature, but they
also are more financially secure.
“People seem to be finding a new marriage bargain that works for
21st-century couples,” said Andrew Cherlin, a Johns Hopkins University
sociologist who studies families. “It’s based on pooling two incomes,
replacing the old breadwinner-homemaker bargain that worked well in the
’50s.”
Researchers increasingly are finding a connection between marriage and
education. In 2009, 31 percent of brides had a college degree, up from
21 percent in 1996.
“Marriage has become a much more selective institution in today’s
society,” said W. Bradford Wilcox, director of the National Marriage
Project at the University of Virginia. “People who are
college-educated, more affluent or more religious are more likely to
get married and stay married. People who are not are less likely to get
married in the first place, and if they do marry, they’re more likely
to divorce.”
The Marriage Project has found that people without a college degree are
three times as likely to divorce in the first 10 years as those with a
college degree.
“The odds of getting divorced are much lower for educated and affluent
Americans, the escapades of Schwarzenegger and John Ensign
notwithstanding,” Wilcox said, referring to the former governor of
California and the former senator from Nevada.
Most Americans marry once and stick to it.
According to the census statistics, more than half of the nation’s
married couples have been together at least 15 years. About a third
have marked their 25th anniversaries, and 6 percent have been married
more than 50 years.
Tom Ruggieri, who met his wife in college, has been married for 30
years. In his family, long marriages are the norm. His parents have
been married for 65 years, and his wife’s parents wed 55 years ago.
“That model really does have an impact,” said Ruggieri, the head of the
employee assistance program at the University of Maryland who often
counsels couples in his private practice. “I think people who come from
a divorced family haven’t always seen parents work stuff out. Their
model is, if people fight and they can’t agree, the marriage ends. So
they’re afraid to fight and disagree. You can’t have a marriage without
disagreement.”
Nationwide, divorce rates have leveled off since peaking in the 1980s.
Roughly four in 10 marriages end in divorce. But the rate varies
significantly among different races and ethnicities.
Among black women, half of first marriages end in divorce, a rate that
is far greater those for white, Hispanic and Asian women.
Couples who split seem to recognize their marriage isn’t working long
before they get to a landmark anniversary. Most had divorced within
eight years of their wedding.
Nearly a third of adults never marry at all. That number has marched
upward in every age group over the past decade and a half.
In 1986, one in four people ages 25 to 29 had never married. In 2009,
that was true of almost half in that age group. The number of adults 50
to 54 who have never married also jumped during the same time period to
one in 10.
As with divorce, marriage rates vary with race and ethnicity. Seven out
of 10 black women in their 20s have never married, a dramatic increase
from the mid-1980s.
Census demographers noted that the percentage of never-married black
women 55 and older rose to 13 percent in 2009. The magnitude of the
change suggests that many more black women than white women will never
marry, the report said.
The census also showed that a higher proportion of people who have
married recently are Hispanic, which is the fastest-growing minority
group in the country. In 1996, about one in 10 recently married adults
was Hispanic. By 2009, it had increased to one in five.
“The differences between blacks and whites and Hispanics are changing
the landscape of marriage,” said Renee Ellis, a Census Bureau
demographer who worked on the report.
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