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The White House
My Husband
Jim Obergefell is one of the plaintiffs in the case decided today by
the U.S. Supreme Court that held that, for the first time, any couple
-- straight, lesbian, gay, bisexual, or transgender -- can obtain a
marriage license and make their commitment public and legal in all 50
states.
We reached out to him to ask for his thoughts on this historic
occasion, and this is the open letter he wanted us to share with you.
If you're standing with couples like Jim and John, Pam and Nicole, Joe
and Rob, and millions more around the country today -- say so here.
My husband John died 20 months ago, so we're unable to celebrate
together the Supreme Court's decision on the case that bears my name,
Obergefell v. Hodges.
Today, for the first time, any couple -- straight, lesbian, gay,
bisexual, or transgender -- may obtain a marriage license and make
their commitments public and legal in all 50 states. America has taken
one more step toward the promise of equality enshrined in our
Constitution, and I'm humbled to be part of that.
John and I started our fight for a simple reason: We wanted the State
of Ohio to recognize our lawful Maryland marriage on John's impending
death certificate. We wanted respect and dignity for our 20-year
relationship, and as he lay dying of ALS, John had the right to know
his last official record as a person would be accurate. We wanted to
live up to the promises we made to love, honor, and protect each other
as a committed and lawfully married couple.
Couples across America may now wed and have their marriage recognized
and respected no matter what state they call home. No other person will
learn at the most painful moment of married life, the death of a
spouse, that their lawful marriage will be disregarded by the state. No
married couple who moves will suddenly become two single persons
because their new state ignores their lawful marriage.
Ethan and Andrew can marry in Cincinnati instead of being forced to
travel to another state.
A girl named Ruby can have an accurate birth certificate listing her
parents Kelly and Kelly.
Pam and Nicole never again have to fear for Grayden and Orion's lives
in a medical emergency because, in their panic, they forgot legal
documents that prove both mothers have the right to approve care.
Cooper can grow into a man knowing Joe and Rob are his parents in all
ways emotional and legal.
I can finally relax knowing that Ohio can never erase our marriage from
John's death certificate, and my husband can now truly rest in peace.
Marriage is about promises and commitments made legal and binding under
the law, and those laws must apply equally to each and every American.
Today is a momentous day in our history. It's a day when the Supreme
Court of the United States lived up to the words inscribed above the
front entrance of the courthouse:
Equal Justice Under Law.
Thank you,
Jim
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