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Know! Family
Support for Prevention
9/30/2016
Research Institute has identified 40 developmental assets for
adolescents; a specific set of skills, experiences, relationships and
behaviors that help young people flourish and mature into successful
and contributing adults. Studies of more than five million children of
all cultural and socioeconomic backgrounds consistently show that the
more developmental assets they possess, the less likely they are to
engage in four specific patterns of high-risk behavior: problem alcohol
use, violence, illicit drug use and sexual activity. According to the
Research Institute, as the number of assets increase for youth, the
greater their chances of succeeding in school and being happy, healthy
and responsible.
Youth who experience at least 31 of the 40 assets are considered to be
thriving. Unfortunately, however, the average child in sixth through
twelfth grade typically experiences less than half of the 40
developmental assets, which places the child at higher risk for making
poor behavioral choices.
What should parent to do to increase their children’s assets? One thing
you can do is focus on your support from home. Among the list of key
building blocks is family support, meaning, a child’s family life
provides high levels of love and support.
Here are just a few ideas on how you can take action to strengthen your
family support:
Give them your undivided attention: This is how children measure love.
The times that matter most to our children are when we are willing to
stop what we’re doing to give them undivided attention. Go throw the
ball with them, jump on the trampoline or listen attentively to their
trumpet solo.
Give them words of affirmation: Children’s self-identity and self-worth
depend highly on the words we speak to them. It is our job to correct
our children, but even in discipline, our words should come from a
place of love, encouragement and positive reinforcement.
Give them space: Just like most of us adults, teens need some alone
time each day to relax and unwind.
Hug your child: This goes for the really big kids too. They may act
like they don’t want one, but they do.
Spend time each week with your children individually: It doesn’t have
to be anything extensive — take a walk with one of your children or ask
one of them to run to the store with you. Even picking your child up
from an extracurricular activity can provide an opportunity to have
one-on-one time.
Start family traditions and rituals: Young people love to be
spontaneous, but they also have a deep need for predictability. Choose
a holiday to annually volunteer at a soup kitchen, designate a certain
night of the week for family game night, or start a new tradition in
the way you celebrate family birthdays.
Preserve those precious memories: A family photo album is great, but it
is also special to create a small memory book, memory box or photo
album for each child to hold onto and be able to reminisce.
There are so many ways to increase family love and support for your
child. The important piece is that you consistently make an effort to
be active in your child’s life and show your love and affection.
Learn how to get the conversation started at StartTalking.Ohio.Gov.
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