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How
do you celebrate your mother?
By Melissa Martin
Sunday, May 12, 2019. Mother’s Day is a celebration honoring
mothers. An annual occasion to revere moms.
History of Mother’s Day
After her mother died in 1905, Miss Anna Jarvis wished to memorialize
her mom’s life and campaigned for a national day to honor all mothers.
Her mother was an Appalachian homemaker and lifelong activist who had
organized “Mother’s Work Days” to save the lives of people dying from
polluted water. During the Civil War, Mother Jarvis organized women’s
brigades that encouraged women to help without regard for which side
their men had chosen.
“Although the custom of setting aside a day to honor mothers has
ancient roots, our observance of Mother’s Day originated in 1907 with
the efforts of a devoted daughter, Anna M. Jarvis of Philadelphia, who
conceived the idea of an annual nationwide celebration. The public and
the press quickly embraced the idea, and villages, towns, cities, and
states soon began unofficial Mother’s Day observances.”
www.almanac.com/content/when-is-mothers-day.
On May 8, 1914, President Woodrow Wilson signed a proclamation
designating the second Sunday in May as Mother’s Day.
God Star Mothers
Enacted June 23, 1936, the 74th United States Congress designated "Gold
Star Mother’s Day" as a national commemoration for the American people
honor the continued service of the Gold Star Mothers. Who are Gold Star
Mothers? Women who have been changed forever, through the ultimate
sacrifice of their sons and daughters who gave their lives in the
service to the nation. www.goldstarmoms.com.
Mother’s Day in places of faith
Many churches honor women on Mother’s Day. More people attend church on
Mother’s Day than any Sunday apart from Easter and Christmas.
Steven Curtis Chapman sings “One Heartbeat At A Time” to encourage
mothers with young children:
“You, you are changing the world
One little heartbeat at a time
Making history with every touch and every smile
Oh, you, you may not see it now
But I believe that time will tell
How you, you are changing the world”
Many churches recognize all women. “There are women who want children
but are unable to have them, women who have lost children, women who
choose not to have children, people who have difficult relationships
with their mothers, and people who have lost their mothers. You have
the chance to be sensitive to this, and to bless all the women in your
church by acknowledging and celebrating them.” www.outreach.com/.
“May is a month traditionally dedicated to honoring the Blessed Virgin
Mary. In our churches and homes, we celebrate May as a “Marian month,”
with May processions, May crownings, and other popular devotions in
honor of the Mother of God…As we honor the Mother of God, our spiritual
mother, we also honor our earthly mothers…We thank God for the gift of
our mothers who conceived and gave birth to us, who cared for us,
protected us, taught us, and loved us. Many passed on the precious gift
of faith to us. We remember all our mothers, living and deceased.”
www.todayscatholic.org/.
“A little known fact is that we Jews already had our own Mother’s Day
on our Jewish liturgical calendar. The 11th of the Hebrew month of
Cheshvan (October/November) has long been associated with the death of
our matriarch Rachel, and, as such, was regarded as a sort of Jewish
Mother’s Day,” according to a 2006 article inThe Dayton Jewish
Observer. www.daytonjewishobserver.org/.
In 2017, around 500 Jewish mothers from around the world celebrated
Jewish motherhood in Israel as part of the life-changing “MOMentum”
trip to Israel due to the Jewish Women’s Renaissance Project and
Israel’s Ministry of Diaspora Affairs. www.israelnationalnews.com/.
Mother’s Day at Cemeteries
In the cemeteries too, mothers are remembered. “Some with the standard
marker, some with symbols of affection, some with poems and
epitaphs. A mother who has acted as teacher, comforter,
caregiver, disciplinarian and friend, who has loved her children and
raised them up to let them go is one to be treasured and remembered.”
www.agraveinterest.blogspot.com/.
“Mother’s Day is a bittersweet day for many people. Whether a mother,
grandmother, step-mother, or mother-figure has passed on, the beauty of
a day dedicated to celebrating the mother figure can be tarnished by a
loss… Mother’s Day has been about paying tribute to mothers both on
earth and those who have passed since its inception.”
wwwheavensmaid.com/.
Mother’s Day is an emotional holiday for those grieving the recent
deaths of mothers or the other women that have been like moms to them.
This year I will visit the graves of the three most important mother
figures in my life: Shirley Cunningham Martin, Hila Watts Ashley, and
Lydia Wiehle Cunningham. Instead of flowers, I will give them my
tears—tears of sadness, but also tears of gladness—because we will be
reunited in Heaven. “Blessed are those who mourn, for they will be
comforted,” Jesus declared in Matthew 5:4.
How do you celebrate your mother?
Melissa Martin, Ph.D., is an author, columnist, educator, and
therapist. She lives in Southern Ohio.
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