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Along Life’s Way
Besting the Bullies
By Lois E. Wilson
Ellen Degeneres was recently photographed sitting next to George W.
Bush at a football game. They were both smiling and seemed to be
enjoying each other’s company.
She later called him “a friend” and made positive comments about having
friends whose viewpoints differ from your own. It was a flashback to
the L.A. riots of 1992 after which Rodney King said, “People, I just
want to say, you know, can we all get along? Can we get along?"
Some people on the liberal side of the entertainment world sharply
criticized her comments. Joy Behar, Susan Sarandon, and Mark Ruffalo
came back at her quickly citing various reasons why she should not
associate with former President Bush. Ruffalo compared Bush to a war
criminal. An article about the Bush/Degeneres friendship suggested in
this case, the Golden Rule doesn’t apply.
It was a group attack by many who are known for advocating tolerance
for diversity. They were definitely bullying Ellen. I can imagine that
she felt betrayed. To their credit, Elton John, Reese Witherspoon and a
few others came to her defense.
After the incident, Howard Stern appeared on her show. He suggested and
then strongly urged her to kiss him—which she reluctantly did. He
believed that act would give the media a new “Ellen” story to feature.
Invited speakers at university or political events have been harassed
by screaming protesters or their actions until the speakers were forced
to end their messages. It is unfortunate that at times the right and
left sides do not honor the American legacy of free speech and
association. Conservatives should work to preserve this heritage and
work with liberals to expand it to all. We can learn from each other.
Bullying from those we disagree with leads to more division and
animosity until cooperation becomes unlikely or impossible. If when
working together in the spirit of healing, someone extends their
hand—don’t slap it; shake it. Then join hands with them and try to
solve the problem. Or better than that, don’t be bullied—be brave! In
good faith extend your hand first. The unexpected gesture may motivate
others to shake it. Either way, you will have scored a point.
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