When
Children were Children
Monopoly
would last for days
By Sharon Hopper
I
was just thinking today about the things we did in the winter to
entertain ourselves because of the long dark evenings. Today every
child seems
intent on video games, texting, and playing with apps whatever they
are, or
reading a book on a device.
I
started to remember what took up the time. And ironically I was
surprised at the intricate, mind work, and co-ordination that was
involved in
our pastimes. We were personally interactive. Not with a device but
with real
people. Let me just name a few and see if you remember the following
ways to
spend an evening with a friend or actually with a family member.
Chinese
Checkers------played with marbles and 2 or 4 players. My
great grandmother was in a wheelchair, and always had her board and
marbles
ready to go. How about real Checkers played on a checkerboard. My
grandpa was
an ace at this game and even when I won I was not sure he did not dump
the game
so I would keep trying. That game did make one think. And there were
cards. Everything
from “Slap Jack” to “Rummy” A real game of skill was called Pic Up
Sticks. Remember
the black stick was to assist one in removing the other sticks without
movement
of another. Everyone had their nose on the table to make sure that the
wrong
stick did not move. And a very old form of Yatsee came into being when
I was a
young person and that was fun because everyone in the family could
play. Young
and old. We used to get a game of Monopoly going and it would last for
days.
At
any rate it seemed that we were far more active than the
children of today. And I really do not remember being bored. I always
had
something to do. In contradiction to my grandchildren’s thinking I did
not grow
up in the dark age. --- We actually had electricity. No Television, but
electric light and the radio. I wonder what the children of today would
think
of a Christmas with every gift costing under 15.00? Gifts like a Jack
in the
Box, a Puzzle, Cards, Pic Up Sticks, Checkers, Paper Dolls, Games, and
the like.
Nothing electronic. What if they had to turn off the cell phones,
television, computer,
or I Pad.? Well folks, I personally think they would learn that people
matter. Our
kind of activity promoted the ability to disagree or put another down,
but it
also promoted apology, and forgiveness or you were a very lonely child.
Actually
I think kindness, fair play, and the ability of face to face
communication was
the real advantage to my type of childhood over today. I loved being a
kid, probably
because I was a real kid. Our children today are being robbed of
childhood. I
would not trade places for anything.
I
was born in a time When Children were Children.
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