When Children were Children
We were expected to succeed
By Sharon Hopper
The
year was 1951. Summer. The Republican Convention had just
convened.
Boy
was it different in those days. We had no television or
mainstream media like today. People actually had to read and think
about their
decisions. Or hear the commentators on the radio. Radio? It was the
main source
of entertainment in our home. I can still see my dad and mom sitting by
the
radio listening to the speeches from the Republican Convention Floor.
And most
of all I remember the role call from the states that year because my
father was
an absolute Eisenhower man. When Eisenhower had enough votes to be the
candidate my father hollered and shouted. From then on it was game on
in our
house about the next President. This process took about 5 months total.
Not 2
years.
I
tell you that the impact the old process had on children was much
healthier than the arguments, raw commercials, and bad news about our
country
the children hear now days. In fact we were proud, and respectful of
the office
of president. And the First Lady was treated as the Queen of America.
Oh I am
sure that congress had their arguments, and problems, just like today,
but we
did not have them in our face everyday.
We
were never told as children that our leaders and teachers were
failing us. We were expected to succeed because it was the right thing
to do. It
wasn’t the government’s fault, or bad teachers, or the high cost of
college. The
problem was simply the student and our inability or drive to succeed.
Life was
so much simpler for children. Demands were less. Play was more. Sex was
out of
the question. Pressure was the difference of a B on the grade card and
a D. Failure
was possible. And growing up was inevitable. Rules were followed.
Teachers were
respected. And our attitude toward the First Family was one of Respect,
because
our parents had a higher regard for our government. After all America
had just
won a very big war using a very big weapon and our President had been a
big
part of that war.
As
a young person I had a very big desire to be a success in life. Like
to think to some degree I was just that. Excuses… we had very few.
Opportunity was
just being an American Unlimited. We need to stop the insanity. It is
unhealthy.
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