Teen to Teen Talk
Reaching
the Bull’s Eye
of Success
by Elizabeth Horner
I’m no Annie Oakley. The
one time my dad took me for practice shooting, I did OK, but it
wasn’t something I was really into--- which is why I think it
surprised both him and me when I started following the History
Channel’s Top Shot. The shooting competition features some of the
best marksmen from around the country, from around the world.
In addition to the amazing
talent of these men and women, I was also impressed by the show’s
lack of politics. Whether it was due to the competitors or History’s
editors, they make it seem as if most of the people there are devoted
to the idea that the best should push forward. Someone likable, who
doesn’t demonstrate they have the chops, will be sent to
elimination rather than someone with the necessary skills. They
choose, again and again, to preserve the value of the title one of
them will receive at the end.
For the show’s fifth
season, they have brought in a group of “All Stars”--- high place
finishers from the show’s previous years--- to once again, get a
chance to be the Top Shot. I was intrigued by the concept, but
lately, found myself even more fascinated by the results. A 2nd place
finisher went home first. In a head-to-head match-up between two
people who had a head-to-head match-up before, the opposite person
lost and sent their friend packing. And it made me realize that, for
once, a reality show might be revealing one of the hidden facets of
reality.
Modern society is built on
competition: who wins the soccer game, who gets the guy, who has the
coolest shoes, who snags the last slice of pizza at a party…. And
when we come up short, it makes us sometimes think less of ourselves,
in part because we think other people think less of us. I don’t. I
saw some really great shooters have really bad days, and that didn’t
mean that they weren’t really great shooters. I watched a person’s
circumstances work against them, such as when the smoke from hitting
one target obscured Gary’s view of his next. I’ve also heard
judges give an appraisal of who will win based on practice, only to
have an underdog victory. And I’m not just talking about shooting
here.
What we have to realize is
that among the comments scrawled on our homework papers by our
teachers, the blue ribbons given out at fairs, the crinkled noses of
people who don’t like our cooking, etc, etc, that our opinion of
ourselves matters. Those who got eliminated the second time claimed
that it was an honor to have lost to some of the best in the world,
and I think they meant it; sometimes falling a little short of our
goals is still a tribute to the fact that we tried.
It’s important that we
don’t let life’s little competitions knock us down. Because, in
the end, no one is counting points won or lost, they are just
noticing the forward progress, which you can achieve by staying
focused and confident. There might even be times when we suffer from
what feels like a major setback, only to be given a second chance at
what was called a ‘once-in-a-lifetime’ opportunity.
I may not be an Annie
Oakley, but I believe in what she said: “Aim at a high mark and you
will hit it. No, not the first time, nor the second. Maybe not the
third. But keep on aiming and keep on shooting. Soon, you’ll reach
the bulls eye of success.”
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