By Lois E. Wilson
One definition of the word “transition” is: the passage from one state, stage, subject, style, or place to another.
Throughout our lives, we are constantly making transitions. They may be natural, such as those which occur because of physical growth and aging.
They may be planned transitions which come from actions or changes of our own—such as choices of schools, marriage, or careers.
Many times the transitions are totally unexpected. Military or public service can result in life-changing injuries. Sport activities and car accidents can also diminish our physical capacities. Our homes and yards are often the sites for falls, and other mishaps.
What is important when experiencing transitions? The four “A’s” are:
Awareness is the first. We should try to be aware No matter how careful we are—we can be the recipients of good or bad events that impact our lives forever.
Secondly, attitude is the manner in which we deal or confront a transition. We should make every effort to keep it positive. Maybe you are in a situation where you have little control of the changes going on in your life. You can control your attitude.
Acceptance, the third “A,” is a challenge. In whatever your circumstances, try to keep looking forward. Looking backwards will only impede your progress toward success.
Adaptation is the fourth “A.” Every time I think of overcoming misfortunes, I think of a young man, Johnny “Joey” Jones. I’ve mentioned him in a column before. He has appeared on various Fox News programs in recent months. Fox signed him as a regular contributor. Jones had two combat deployments and eight years of service in the Marine Corps. In 2010 while in Afghanistan Staff Sergeant Jones (a bomb technician) experienced an incident in which he lost both his legs above the knee, damaged his right arm and both wrists.
He accepted these major injuries, adapted and went on with his life. His positive approach and acceptance to his new life contributed to his positive outcome.
Our goal should be to try to ensure we endure our current situations. And with a positive attitude—persevere in our transitions. H.G. Wells was correct when he stated, “What really matters is what you do with what you have.”