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Broke Wife, Big City… I called my kid a butthead in public, By Aprill Brandon
There have been times in my writing career that I have slightly
exaggerated a story for comedic effect. Not much, mind you. Just a
detail or two, here or there. For instance, when my kids are driving me
insane, I don’t actually chug a whole bottle of whiskey. It’s half a
bottle, tops. So, with that said, let me assure you that what follows
below is not one... read
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Ramblings of an Old Man… Why Teachers Teach, By Bob
Robinson
“They cheered.” “Huh?” “They cheered,” said the teacher. “When they
heard you were subbing today, the whole class cheered. They didn’t even
know they’d be seeing you.” She grinned when she saw the expression on
my face. Confused? Uh… yeah! The students had entered the room and I
had to focus on settling them down long enough to learn what their
teacher... read
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Start Talking! Know! April is Alcohol Awareness Month
4/12/2017 - The media has done a good job bringing to light the
prevalence and severity of the use of heroin, prescription drugs and
marijuana among our nation’s youth. But what about alcohol? We don’t
hear much about it in the news anymore. Is underage drinking still that
widespread? And is it really that big of a deal? YES and YES. Alcohol
remains... read
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State Senator Bill Beagle… Modernizing Ohio's Child Support Guidelines
As a parent myself, as well as the chairman of the Ohio Commission on
Fatherhood, I know firsthand that all children deserve the best
possible quality of life in order to prepare them for the future. Child
poverty’s devastating effects on families, education and eventually
one’s ability to work are well documented. Improving financial support
for Ohio’s children is why I introduced Senate Bill 125, which aims... read
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Broke Wife, Big City… Guess who’s negotiating for dinner?
By Aprill Brandon
I’m not exactly sure when it happened. I have a feeling it was
something like when you go broke: gradually, then all at once. But
somehow our nightly family dinners have turned into a one big
negotiation (occasionally escalating into a full-blown hostage
situation). It doesn’t matter what I make. It doesn’t matter how many
options I give. It doesn’t matter that... read
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What
I learned at the Senior Job Fair, By Mike Stegall
Tuesday April 12th at the Greenville High School, seniors from most of
the schools in the county came to visit with, interview, and to be
interviewed by 15 of our fine businesses. Lisa Wendel, our
workforce specialist, has done a great job organizing and putting on
this event along with Melanie Nealeigh, the office coordinator.
The Economic Development office has... read
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Ramblings of an Old Man… Loss of Innocence, By Bob
Robinson
“How old are you, Mr. Robinson?” 72. “Aww… nobody’s that old!” “Yeah,
they are,” says another… “My grandma’s older than that!” I assure the
students that, yes, I am that old and, when necessary, remind them…
“I’m an old man, right?” Right! “Have you ever heard the term, Grumpy
Old Man?” A few say no, a few say yes… but quite a few have heard... read
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College
Credit Plus… What does “College-Ready” mean?
Are you interested in College Credit Plus for your son or daughter, but
aren’t sure if he or she is ready for college? Many parents who have
students in grades 7 through 12 are excited for this option, and their
sons and daughters are academically ready, but it’s important to
consider all of the aspects of being “college ready.” Here are just a... read
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Start Talking! Know! Puberty is a Brain-Changer
4/5/2017 - Cracking voices, body odor and wild mood swings - all
indicators of the long-awaited and sometimes dreaded period in every
adolescents’ life. We’re talking puberty. Most youth are well-aware of
the physical changes they can expect their bodies to go through, but do
they know the impact of puberty on their brains? Are your children... read
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Broke Wife, Big City… Rollercoaster of Love (and Anger and Guilt
and Exhaustion),
By Aprill Brandon - “So, how was your day?” Has there ever been a more
loaded question? Yes. But for my purposes here, I need you to ignore
that. Because I get asked this on a daily basis. Sometimes multiple
times during that daily basis. And it stumps me every single time. How
was my day? How was my whole, entire, day? Well, nothing is currently
on fire. That’s how my... read
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Start Talking! Know! To Secure, Monitor and Properly
Dispose
3/29/2017 - Tis the season for spring cleaning. As you’re working hard
to get your home decluttered, organized, spotless and sparkling, be
sure to include the clearing out of old, unused or unwanted medicines –
it’s a vitally important task. Families are continuing to be devastated
and destroyed as children by medicine abuse. Kids end up in the ER... read
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Broke Wife, Big City… Free at last, free at last, By
Aprill Brandon
Hi. How’s your day going? I have cabbage leaves in my bra. And no, this
isn’t some fancy new way to make coleslaw I learned from Gwyneth
Paltrow on Goop (although I wouldn’t put it past her). Oh no. My bra is
stuffed with produce because it allegedly has healing powers. Which I
need because after nine long months, I am …(drum roll, please)… finally
weaning... read
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Commissioner’s
Corner March 2017
Is it just me or should February have been March and March should have
been February? This weather has been completely confused! Seventy-
degree weather in February and 30’s in March was the norm this year.
Hopefully, now that we are at the end of the month, things will get
back to a more normal setting, and April will be a regular April! March
has been... read
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Flight
From Love, By Kate Burch
There are a number of conditions of contemporary life in America that
disturb me. One that I find almost unutterably sad is the
“hookup” culture on our college campuses. Even at many
religiously-affiliated colleges, participation—usually
alcohol-fueled—in numerous and casual sexual encounters with strangers
or mere acquaintances has become normative behavior...
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Broke Wife, Big City… The Life-Changing Magic of Giving Up,
By Aprill Brandon
Oh, early spring. Isn’t it lovely? That magical time of year where you
can kick the melting, dirty, gray snow out of your path with your new
flip-flops while walking in an unrelenting downpour of freezing rain.
Mmm…so life affirming. Ugh. Oh, how I hate this time of year. So much.
It’s dumb and the weather sucks and there are no good holidays unless
you count... read
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Start Talking! Know! To Stop, Drop and Breathe
3/15/2017 - Even as adults, anger can be a difficult emotion to
control, especially when it involves a child who continues to defy his
or her parents. No one can push our buttons like our own children.
However, the importance of exhibiting self-control in order to
discipline a child appropriately, is monumental. An angry parent is
scary enough. An angry... read
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Broke Wife, Big City… When your village lives far away,
By Aprill Brandon
My life would make for a horrible sitcom. Not because I’m not funny.
Pffft. Please. I’m super funny. Hilarious, even. And yet humble. Oh, so
humble. I’m essentially the love child of David Sedaris and some really
humble dude. And not because my life isn’t absurd. It is. Oh, how it
is. The other day I spent 45 minutes sitting on the floor of my... read
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A
Message from Paolo DeMaria, Superintendent of Public Instruction
As Ohioans, we all want every child to receive a high-quality education
so they can succeed in life, careers and future learning. That unity is
crucial as we seek to lead our education system to be the best it can
be in the service of every child. Only by working together can we reach
our aspirations. The submission of the state's Every Student Succeeds
Act (ESSA... read
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Start Talking… Know! To Practice Kindness
3/8/2017 -- When kindness is a priority in the lives of young people,
they are likely to have an increased overall sense of well-being,
purpose and happiness. We all want our children to be happy, right? So
as parents and teachers, we find ourselves going out of our way, doing
many small acts of kindness every day, solely for their benefit. But
what we quickly learn is that these acts... read
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Broke Wife, Big City… Wolverine vs. The Really Hyper Bunnies,
By Aprill Brandon
Here’s a million dollar idea for all you budding entrepreneurial
wanna-be types: Invent a self-defense class for parents of small
children. Now, to be clear, I don’t mean for situations where you need
to protect your children. Pretty much every parent I know is capable of
murdering someone with a rattle if they catch that person even looking
at their... read
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Know!
What a Healthy Dating Relationship Is, and What It Is Not
2/28/2017 - It is always important to focus attention on abuse in young
people’s relationships and provide information to help prevent it. In a
previous Know! tip, The Not-So-Innocent Side of Teen Romance, we
discussed the prevalence of physical, emotional and verbal dating abuse
that takes place among youth, as well as the long-lasting problems... read
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A
day without a woman? By Susan Olling
A local commentator, whose opinions I respect, raised a good question
about what went on 08 Mar: who were women in this country trying to
educate? Any answers out there? If you want to hear
his excellent comments, follow this link and go to 08 Mar:
http://wtop.com/core-values-chris-core/. I read various articles about
a day without a woman... read
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Broke Wife, Big City… The seven-year glitch, By
Aprill Brandon
It was our seventh wedding anniversary. Which is the baby wipe
anniversary, I believe. Or perhaps the Swiffer anniversary. Either way,
we had no money for gifts after Googling local preschool prices. But it
didn’t matter. The sun was shining. I was wearing a skirt AND
non-pregnancy underwear. And my mother-in-law was in town, happily
volunteering to... read
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A
bit of this and a bit of that….. By Susan Olling
I love a good clear out. Not necessarily a whole room, but
clearing stuff, even out of a drawer, is always therapeutic. I
found a bag on the top shelf of a closet recently. The bag
contained a copy of the Washington Post. The Wednesday, September
12, 2001 edition. Needing a break, I spent some time going
through this piece of ancient history. There was...
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The Learning Network… Will Social Media Help or Hurt Your College
and Career Goals?
Student Opinion By Caroline Crosson Gilpin - Feb. 24, 2017 - Facebook,
Twitter and other social media sites have become an integral part of
teenage culture. Yet the snarky comment or inappropriate picture we
share with our friends just might not project the image we want the
rest of the world to see, especially as we get older. How careful are
you online? In this... read
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Know!
The Not-So-Innocent Side of Teen Romance
2/14/2017 - The month of February is known as a time of “love,” where
secret-admirers and Valentines of all ages express their affection for
one another through candy hearts, red roses and love letters. In sharp
contrast, however, February has also become known as Teen Dating
Violence Awareness Month to focus attention on abuse in young people... read
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Commissioner’s Corner… Commissioners Update for February
February has passed by very quickly, and with weather comparative to
what we have in March; some nice days, some rain, some snow. Well,
after all, this is the Great Miami Valley, and if you don’t like the
weather now, just wait 5 minutes and it will change! The year has
started out pretty well for the county. We continue to move forward on
some projects... read
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The
Opioid Solution, By Mike Stegall
I heard an incredible statistic last week, one that makes you really
stop and think. It stated that the United States has 4% of the
world’s population, but 80% of the world’s opioid use! That is
just mind-numbingly awful. I also saw where Dayton, Ohio is the
#1 city in America from drug deaths per capita. That is just 35
miles south of us here in Darke County. This problem is not
exclusive to just us... read
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A
Crisis of Self-Doubt, By Kate Burch
A little-noted recent event was the call by Sergei Lavrov, Russia’s
foreign minister, for a “post West world order.” He made his
remarks, also including denunciations of the current “post truth” state
of international relations, at the Munich Security Conference.
Does the failure of our media to remark or object imply their
agreement? The intellectual and... read
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Broke Wife, Big City… White lies I told my children this week*
By Aprill Brandon
*or possibly just today. The sun doesn’t like it when you wake up
before he does. Mommy can’t play cars with you until she drinks ALL her
coffee. It’s the law. I’ll come help you find the green car in five
minutes. No, it hasn’t been five minutes yet. I still have three
minutes. Maybe I’ll let you go play in the snow after breakfast. Nope,
we’re all out of yogurt... read
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Know!
To Role Model RESPECT for the Rx
2/7/2017 - Why focus on prescription drugs? Research shows that more
deaths are now occurring each year from accidental drug overdoses than
from car accidents. Someone in the U.S. dies every 15 minutes from an
accidental overdose. Nearly half of the drug overdose deaths are due to
prescription drugs. Parents are powerful influencers when... read
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Broke Wife, Big City… Confessions of a “Threenage” Drama King,
By Aprill Brandon
He’s moody. He’s disrespectful. He hates everything I do. Yup, my
little boy is growing up. I can’t believe he’s a teenager already. Oh
wait. Sorry. That was a typo. I meant to type threenager. He’s three.
THREE. I always thought people were exaggerating when they talked about
the Terrible Twos. My angel was just that when he was two. An angel.
He... read
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NPR Ed… Not All Fun And Games: New Guidelines Urge
Schools To Rethink Recess,
Sophia Boyd - February 1, 2017 - What's the best time for students to
have recess? Before lunch, or after? What happens if it rains? If
students are misbehaving, is it a good idea to punish them by making
them sit out recess? Those are just a few of the issues addressed in
new guidelines designed to help schools have good recess. The
recommendations... read
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Musings
on Social Media, By Jim Surber
“If I were to run, I’d run as a Republican. They are the dumbest group
of voters in the country. They believe anything on Fox News. I could
lie and they’d still eat it up. I bet my numbers would be terrific.”
Millions of people read this quote on their Facebook news feed,
attributed to Donald Trump in a 1998 interview in People magazine. It
was, no doubt, received with... read
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Broke Wife, Big City… But where’s my gold star? By
Aprill Brandon
The one thing I probably hear the most since having children? (Besides
“whoa, you look tired”). “You are so lucky you get to stay home with
your kids.” There are different versions of this, of course. All with
fun varying degrees of passive-aggressiveness. “I’d love to spend all
day in my pajamas doing nothing.” “I hope you appreciate it. I die a
little... read
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Broke Wife, Big City… Am I a lazy mom? By Aprill
Brandon
You know those brief moments in time when, as a parent, you finally
feel like you have it all together? All the balls are in the air and
you feel oddly confident you can keep them there? Maybe even have a
whole extra second to use one of your hands to gulp down a glass of
wine because you are a parenting goddess and you’ve earned it, dammit.
This... read
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Start Talking! Know! January 23-29 is National Drug &
Alcohol Facts Week
1/18/2017 - When it comes to alcohol and other drugs, there are
opinions and then there are facts. It’s hard enough for adults to
distinguish between the two; it is even more challenging for youth, who
get much of their information from the internet, TV, movies, music or
from friends. With that in mind, parents and other caregivers are
encouraged to... read
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Hey
Everyone! Whew. It’s been a busy week
Let's start with Betsy DeVos' Senate confirmation hearing — all three
hours and change. We finally know a little more about Donald Trump's
pick to be the next education secretary. At the hearing, DeVos faced
questions on a range of issues, from private school vouchers and
charter school oversight to guns in schools. "The answer is local... read
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Broke Wife, Big City… Why I went to the women’s march,
By Aprill Brandon
I’ve been trying to write this godforsaken article for hours now. So
much of my social media feed is cluttered with people demanding to know
why women across this country felt the need to protest and, as someone
who participated, I felt it was my duty to explain. To respond.
To…ugh…get a dialogue going. I started a bunch of sentences. About
how... read
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Start Talking! Know! To Get YOUR Cell Phone Use in Check
1/10/2017 - Teens spend an average of nine hours a day on their
smartphones. Yes - you say - you’ve heard it before, you know it’s
unhealthy for them for a number of reasons, and you have rules in place
to reduce their screen time. Very good; you’ve got your child’s phone
use in check, but how about yours? According to Common Sense... read
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Yes!
I Want to Know, By Kate Burch
Governor Kasich, who more and more is exposed as a practitioner of the
kind of cronyism and authoritarian rule we have seen in Washington
these past eight years, is refusing to support or enforce a 2015 law
providing for transparency in the prices of health care services and
procedures. The law would provide that when a patient requests an
estimate of the total cost of a non-emergency...
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Broke Wife, Big City… How much no is too much no? By
Aprill Brandon
Is there anything more surreal than being a parent? I can’t tell you
how many times I have been in the midst of some hardcore parenting and
thought to myself “is this real life?” Pretty much every day of my life
is the ultimate performance in the theater of the absurd. Take, for
instance, when I’m arguing with my almost 3-year-old about something... read
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No place to be on Jan 20, By
Susan Olling
Every four years, January 20 is a day on the National Mall just like
the 04 Jul. There are a few differences, but the result’s the
same: the Mall is no place to be. Before continuing, I would like
to say a few things related to the upcoming festivities. The
local fish wrapper didn’t and still doesn’t have much positive to say
about the upcoming administration change. Mind you... read
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Washington Post… Why surging high school graduation rates
might be a mirage,
By Jay Mathews - U.S. high school graduation rates are soaring.
President Obama announced in October that the 2014-2015 rate was up to
83 percent in a fifth straight record-setting year. The D.C. public
schools’ increase was the greatest anywhere, from 53 percent to 69
percent. Sadly, as impressive as these numbers seem, there is no
research indicating they... read
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Unqualified???? By Kate Burch
Many on the Left are outraged by the election of a hugely successful
businessman as our new President.
Some decry his lack of experience in government, implying that
unfamiliarity with the arcana of Washington renders him ineffective as
the chief executive of our country. Others—those who believe that it is
fundamentally unfair that some... read
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Start Talking… Know! To Set Family Goals for the New Year
1/5/2017 - January rolls in like a breath of fresh air. The calendar is
reset and, in many regards, it is a chance to begin anew and an
opportunity to do things “better” moving forward. The new year is also
an ideal occasion for parents and children to come together to set
fresh goals as both a family unit and as individuals. As you consider... read
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Broke Wife, Big City… Surviving winter, By Aprill
Brandon
Well, Christmas is over. Meaning life is basically over. Nothing to
look forward to now except a bleak, never-ending winter and easily
getting all my cardio in with the Herculean exertion it takes to stuff
two squirmy tiny humans into snow suits and winter coats and mittens
and hats and snow boots that were designed by engineers who have... read
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Start Talking… Know! How to Even the Playing Field for
Your Child
12/28/2016 - The NFL and its advertisers are gearing up for the Super
Bowl, set to kickoff Sunday, Feb. 5. About 111.9 million viewers tuned
in for last year’s Super Bowl, making it the third highest watched U.S.
broadcast in history. The upcoming Super Bowl is expected to catch just
as much attention for the commercials as much as the...
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Greenville Schools: Looking Back… Looking
Ahead, By Bob Robinson
“I got memories,” he said. “I went to school there.” He rode up on his
bicycle while I was taking pictures of East school. Nice guy, late
twenties or early thirties. “Don’t know if I really want anything from
there, but I got my memories.” He was referring to the announced
auction sign in front of the school. The resident wanted to know if the
high... read
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Broke Wife, Big City… I’m a Fitbit person now, By
Aprill Brandon
Guys, it’s been nice knowing you. You’re all swell, really. But
eventually all good things must come to an end. So, while I enjoyed our
time together, it’s a new year and time for me to move on. Time for me
to leave you in the dust as I walk exactly…*checks wrist* …6,101 steps
away from you. I’m a Fitbit person now. Yes, dear readers, thanks to my
husband... read
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Sticks and Stones, By Kate
Burch
Living or working on today’s college campus must be, for one who is not
a member of a protected group, something like navigating a mine
field. One may, while totally lacking malevolent intent, commit a
“microaggression” or otherwise be guilty of insulting or disparaging,
or even “harassing” another by simply offering a compliment or
remarking... read
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Social Media: A Good Thing or a Bad Thing?
By Jonathan Holman, Edison DCC Comp 1 Student - Social media is one of
the most argued subjects of today. From parents, teachers, and
reporters, to kids, students, and entertainers. It seems as though
everyone has a strong opinion on the subject in one way or another. But
this is all recent. The concept of social media has been around for
centuries. It wasn’t until now that people are starting to question its
methods... read
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Start Talking! Know! To Interact with Tact with these
Smartphone Tips!
12/14/2016 - Is your son or daughter among the many youth begging for a
smartphone this holiday season? And are you among the many parents
considering the buy? Smartphones certainly have their advantages. The
number one reason parents cite for purchasing their child’s first
cellphone is that it provides location tracking and makes it easier to
communicate... read
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After School Program at Edison… Making a Difference in the World,
Jim Kildow, Edison Student Volunteer - I have put in over 60 hours at
the afterschool program. As a result I like to consider myself fairly
knowledgeable about the mechanics of the program – how it works, why it
works, and what needs fixing. Originally I had assumed this option for
the final was provided only as an easy way to get more tutors for the
program. By the end of my first day... read
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After School Program at Edison… The Program a Positive Reinforcement to the
Students,
By Samantha Buchy, Edison Student Volunteer - The after school program
was a great addition to our schools, and our students. This program was
designed to open a free after school program for students, which
provided tutoring and companionship for these young students. The
workers help the students with homework or understanding new lessons. I
feel like... read
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After School Program at Edison… This Program has Rededicated my Commitment
to Learning,
By Courtney Toops, Edison Student Volunteer - The program in my opinion
was effective throughout the weeks. I think the children began to have
fun learning, made new friends, learned respect. Some of the students
are less than eager to leave when being told they are being picked up.
The age group is appropriate as well, since K-4th...
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After School Program at Edison… This may change their future,
By Seth Phillippi, Edison Student Volunteer - I believe I have made a
good choice in choosing to do the after school program. This is one of
the best ways I can spend my free time. I enjoy coming and helping the
kids. I am thinking about helping out even after the semester is over.
I think the after school program has a good benefit from being in
communication class. I have used my own critical thinking during... read
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After School Program at Edison… A Valuable Experience I’ll need later in
Life,
By Makenzie Stucky, Edison student volunteer - I feel as if I have
gained valuable skills that will benefit me later in life through
helping with this program. As I plan to be a teacher I believe that
this experience has been very valuable to me because it has shown me
some of the things I will have to deal with when I do become a teacher.
I think it was extra valuable because... read
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After School Program at Edison… Helping kids become better students,
By Bryce Filbrun, Edison Student Volunteer - I have gained a lot from
participating in the after school program. By participating in the
program, I have gained a lot of respect for my parents. I have learned
that my parents have raised me in a way that I respect my schooling and
my grades. I have learned how to be more patient. When working with the
little kids, you have to be... read
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After School Program at Edison… An experience I’ll remember forever,
By Kinsey Goins, Edison Student Volunteer - The After School Program
was a very unique, fulfilling, and satisfying experience. At first I
wasn't sure if I was going to like the program since I didn't know any
of the kids, or have any previous experience working in that type of
environment. All of the Edison core values were used over the course of
my participation in the program... read
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State Rep. Jim Buchy … To the Residents of the 84th House
District, Farewell
As the year and my term of office wind down, I want to take a minute to
thank you for the privilege of serving in the Ohio House of
Representatives for 24 years. There is no better place in which to live
than west-central Ohio. We have the best families, schools, and places
to work. A very high percentage of our families have a strong belief in
God and are active in... read
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Tips to
make the holidays happy and bright—and safe
(Dec.22, 2016) — According to the song, this is the most
wonderful time of the year. It’s also one of the busiest—and most
dangerous. With last-minute gifts to buy, social events to attend and
family and friends to visit, there are a lot of distractions that may
keep you from having that wonderful time. So the American Red Cross is
offering 12 health and... read
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